Unlock Your Commitment Style

How do you feel when someone asks you to commit to a long-term project or relationship?

  • Excited and eager to jump in
  • Nervous and hesitant, but willing to give it a try
  • Anxious and overwhelmed
  • Indifferent or uninterested

In your past relationships, how often did you feel the need for space or time alone?

  • Rarely or never
  • Occasionally, but it was manageable
  • Frequently, it was a recurring need
  • Constantly, I couldn't handle being too close to someone

When faced with a major life decision, how do you typically react?

  • I analyze the pros and cons and make a well-thought-out choice
  • I hesitate and struggle to make a decision
  • I feel overwhelmed and avoid making a decision
  • I let someone else make the decision for me

How important is independence and freedom in your life?

  • Not very important, I value stability and security more
  • Somewhat important, I like having some freedom but not too much
  • Very important, I need a lot of independence to be happy
  • Extremely important, I can't be tied down by anything or anyone

When it comes to commitment, how do you view it?

  • As an exciting opportunity for growth and connection
  • As a potential source of both joy and pain
  • As a burden or constraint on my freedom
  • As something I avoid or am not interested in

The Careful Contemplator

You approach commitment with caution, taking the time to analyze and consider your options. Remember to trust your instincts and be open to the possibilities that commitment can bring.

The Ambivalent Adventurer

You have mixed feelings about commitment, experiencing both excitement and hesitation. Take it one step at a time and communicate your concerns with your partner to find a balance between freedom and connection.

The Anxious Avoider

Commitment triggers anxiety and overwhelm for you. It's important to understand the root causes of your fear and seek support if needed. Take small steps towards commitment and build trust gradually.

The Commitmentphobic

You have a strong aversion to commitment and value your independence above all else. Consider exploring your fears and beliefs around commitment to create a healthier relationship with it.

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